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Parental Connection & Boundaries: a Boy Moves Through ROGD

December 11, 2020 by Sasha 2 Comments

Submitted by Anonymous Mom We were completely blindsided when our 15 year old son announced to us a couple of years ago that he was "transgender and pansexual." The fact that those two descriptors were also the exact terms​ used by the girl he was interested in seemed even more suspicious. Our son's case was one of very explicit social influence. He went to a summer theater camp. He described to kids he met there feelings of deep discomfort. Even though those feelings did not relate to ...read more

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Parallels Between Lobotomy and Childhood “Gender” Transition

September 8, 2020 by Sasha 13 Comments

Before sharing this piece I want to clearly state my perspective on a few key issues:  Adults who chose to medically transition deserve the best care medicine can afford them. Well-researched interventions with thorough long-term follow-up and robust informed consent are necessary. Advocates for ethical care of transgender and gender dysphoric patients such as Buck Angel, Scott Newgent, GCCAN, and UK Tavistock whistle-blowers like Marcus Evans and Dr. David Bell are ...read more

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The Same but Different: Convergent Pathways of Gender Dysphoria

November 20, 2019 by Sasha Ayad, M.Ed., LPC 17 Comments

A few decades ago childhood gender dysphoria was exceedingly rare and it’s cause was not well understood. There have been several revisions to diagnostic terms and criteria attempting to describe this condition. Today most mental health professionals would define gender dysphoria as an incongruence between a person’s biological sex and the “gender” they feel themselves to be. Gender identity is the term used for the subjective, stated inner sense of “gender.” I prefer the clarity of calling this ...read more

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Why Have Parents Lost Their Confidence?

July 25, 2019 by Sasha Leave a Comment

Parenting is a complicated business in 2019. You can find thousands of books, experts, and professionals telling parents how to do their job. Each one offers some technique or tool that promises to unlock the secret to perfect parenting strategy. And yet, we have higher rates of teen anxiety and depression than ever before. How do we account for this paradox? How is it that parents have become so insecure in their ability to raise healthy children that they feel inclined to outsource this task ...read more

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How I Work With Gender-questioning Teens

December 14, 2018 by Sasha 10 Comments

Please read my post on the GD Working Group Site. ...read more

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Towards a more nuanced exploration: An interview with Sasha Ayad (4th Wave Now)

September 28, 2018 by Sasha 1 Comment

This piece originally appeared here, on 4thwavenow. ____________________________________ Sasha Ayad, M. Ed., LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor who works in private practice with teens and young adults who are questioning their gender. We interviewed Sasha via email for this post. She uses an exploration-based approach to seek out underlying issues and help her teen clients move towards self-awareness, resilience, and long-term well being. She also conducts occasional ...read more

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Risk, Comfort, and Transcendence in Gender-questioning Teens

September 17, 2018 by Sasha 4 Comments

There are many factors that seem to impact to the emergent population of gender-questioning adolescents. This post seeks to explore just one aspect of the phenomenon.             Heather Heying is an evolutionary biologist, and self-professed “professor-in-exile”.  Quote from Heather's video: “You need to be willing to take risks such that when your kids do hit 18 or 20, you know that they’re actually already on their way to being adults. ...read more

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The Big Five Personality Traits and Teen-onset Gender Dysphoria

August 20, 2018 by Sasha 4 Comments

The opinions expressed in this article are my own, based on my clinical observations, and do not represent the intended uses of the Big Five trait taxonomy or the perspectives of it’s developers.       What are personality theories? Personality trait research in psychology began in the late 1800's. Personality traits might include factors like extroversion, curiosity, or negative emotionality. While personality trait theories are poor at predicting specific or ...read more

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It’s Not My Journey: A Mother Gives Her Child the Freedom and Boundaries to Explore and Desist From a Transgender Identity

February 9, 2018 by D. Houston 17 Comments

This post was written by D. Houston (a pen name). She is the parent of a brilliant and creative client in my private practice and D describes herself this way: Mom to two kids, one on the spectrum. I’ve been home with them since they’ve been born. Homeschool teacher for 5 years. Butcher, baker, some time candlestick maker. World traveler. Truth seeker. “Mom, I think I am trans…” There are a lot of scenarios parents consider and mull over, but I suspect almost no one preps for this one.   ...read more

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5 Reasons Your Daughter Won’t Open Up

November 15, 2016 by Sasha Ayad, M.Ed., LPC 1 Comment

When your daughter enters her teen years, it can cause a lot of anxiety for parents. You know she will need to grow up eventually, but you worry that she is making risky choices. She may be hanging out with peers that you find unsavory or starting to talk, dress, and act differently. You might have caught her in a lie, uncovered a shameful secret, or discovered that she's been experimenting with drugs and alcohol. You worry about her grades, her safety, and her future. But when you are ...read more

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